Divorce legally ends a marriage and settles everything tied to it: property and debt, support, and the care of children. Every state allows no-fault divorce, but each sets its own residency rules, waiting periods and formulas.
A divorce starts with a petition filed in the state where at least one spouse meets the residency requirement. If the spouses agree on every issue, the case is uncontested and can end with a signed settlement approved by the court. If they disagree, the case is contested: each side exchanges financial information, often tries mediation, and a judge decides what remains unresolved. Property is divided either as community property, split equally in the nine community property states, or by equitable distribution, a fair but not necessarily equal split, in the rest.
Steps from filing to final decree, such as:
Ways to agree without a trial, such as:
Dividing what the marriage built, such as:
Custody, visitation and support, such as:
When a couple never had a license, such as:
When a divorce involves abuse, such as:
State law decides deadlines, forms and procedure, so start with the state where your matter is. Each page lists local attorneys and the cities where they work.
You can file for divorce without a lawyer, and many courts publish forms for uncontested cases. Hire one when there are children, a home, a business, pensions or retirement accounts, significant debt, or a spouse who hides money or already has an attorney. Mistakes in a settlement are hard to undo once the judge signs it.
Divorce lawyers usually bill hourly against a retainer. Uncontested cases can be handled for a fraction of a contested one, and mediation often costs less than litigating each issue. Ask the lawyer for a realistic estimate and how they would try to keep the case out of trial.
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This guide explains general rules in the United States and is not legal advice. Laws and deadlines differ by state, and only a licensed attorney can tell you how they apply to your situation.